“I NEED TO KICK MY EX OUT” – Therapy Gecko

36 thoughts on ““I NEED TO KICK MY EX OUT” – Therapy Gecko”

1. Alanon…it's free and they trach you the same stuff my $75 per session therapist is teaching me. Great suppliment to therapy.

2. As someone who Is also a decendant of a long line of similar bullshit, you can do it Jason. It’ll sting like hell to put yourself first in the beginning, but it is worth it to be able to love yourself and be happy. Can't get there with a bunch of parasitic people around.

3. The better way to help your ex is to kick her out. She losing the chance of becoming a better person by getting everything for free and not be accountable by her choices.

4. Jason, you will never get to have a new relationship living with your crazy ex wife. You are a good human being. Be a good man to a woman who deserves it.

5. This video is the proof of how a men can love a women unconditionally. The woman is a horroble person and he just simp for her. It's really sad. There should be a law against this kind of women. They take everything from men.

6. I understand Jason too well. I'm the exact same way. Been working on it for years and seems like a losing battle. Wishing him the best.

7. Fuck man all i got to say is that person would never do that shit for him and that hits me in the feels

8. JASON, THERE ARE SHIT WOMEN IN THIS WORLD

9. It's a low chance anyone will see this, but if you find yourself in a situation like this, remember that you taking care of yourself gives you the opportunity to help more people than just the people that take you for granted

10. A good question to ask is why do you think it's your responsibility to take care of her? And don't you think we need to learn consequences? Because he is enabling her to do evil and blocking the consequences for her.

11. he doesnt realize that he actually needs to take the steps and not someone else to do it for him. that is why hes rejecting guidance, hes disappointed that someone isnt doing it for him. for example 49:00(to the people on the computer). an adopted false perspective that needs to be unlearned to create progress. i may be wrong, please let me know.

12. I hope Jason finds his happy place. That shit made me tear up.

13. Jason please tell me both your ex's are out of your life now!

14. gecko is out here saving lives man

15. Jason brother, half the shit you said I was like – how did you read my journal! it's so relieving to hear myself reflected in somebody else 😂 we may come from a few generations of trauma, but we got 100 million+ years of strong genes backing us up every step of the way 💪💪💪💪💪💪 peace man!!

    this show is such a cool and uplifting space for people to ground their shit back to Earth! 🌩 nice work Lyle

16. 2:20 – (Sound guy on set in his ear) "Stop touching the gecko fingers … They're not going to go on any tighter. Just.let.it.go.man!

17. My dad literally just went through what Jason was going through. I so glad he is put of that relationship and that woman is gone forever!

18. Damn Jason the reason there’s no good dudes is because we get taken advantage of

19. Jason bro. I am you. You are me. I stayed with my ex for way over a year and change, she has an 8 year old. I stayed with her bc she had no options, no family. She has a plethora of mental disorder and makes functioning in real life minimal. It wasn't until I caught her red handed getting dropped off by another dude outside the niehborhood. Kicked her out and boom all of a sudden she can find a job. (Livin in a separate room at baby daddy's now…. poor steve) but the band aid is off now. And it was the hardest thing bc I didn't appreciate myself one bit. I will always love her but it was detrimental to me mental health. Now I'm living by myself snd hard to get out of the house. Almost like her ailments where contagious. But now I'm looking to move to a new place and look forward. Jason man I feel you hard. I know exactly what your going through here brother. Hope things have worked out for ya. Live and let live and focus forward.

20. I really wanna be his friend. I can relate to a bunch of stuff we’ve both kinda gone through with women and self worth. I’ve always wrote off therapy but dang Jason’s story has got me reconsidering. Thanks for sharing man helped me with my stuff. Take care of yourself Jason, you’re a really cool guy

21. The word I kept thinking of – Enabling!!

22. I have never wanted to be someone's friend more than I want to be Jason's friend. I don't feel sorry for the guy, I feel so excited for his potential. Just knowing there's this rad dude out there quietly driving truck and being held back like that

23. Jason. A suggestion. Move apartment. Doesnt have to be far away. You both have to move out, and this is key.

    Maybe even go so far as not have a home for a brief while, if that is possible. Live with your mum, in a motel, an RV, idk. The goal is to make her solve her living situation.

    Cheering for you from Oslo Norway. You're a great person.

24. First caller needs to get a grip jesus lyle he keeps saying hes hurting her shes hurting herself just say that dude fuck man i hate california beating around the bush shit

25. Become a slob and throw crazy parties and tell people to steal her couch. Or get a dog and pee on your couch everyday untill she can't take the smell anymore.

26. This guy, man.. I feel so sorry for him. Really hope he can turn this around, and start beginning putting himself first before anyone or anything else.

27. One could argue that he would help his ex by kicking her out. He may have supported her but he sure as hell hasn’t helped her by providing her with everything. I feel for the dude. He‘s an angel.

28. I wonder if it would be any help talking to her kids about their mom and the toxic situation he is in. Maybe they could help?

29. I love you Jason

30. Can someone send Jason to heaven? He's a saint!

31. Jason is good people. I know this is probably awful to hear. I think he needs to start dating like no focus just having a good time, meeting folks, getting to know the town. Those women in his life and their problems will start to not be in his backyard

32. Jason, talk to the kids about not being emotionaly able/ willing to support theyr mom.

33. I feel obliged to comment in case Jason reads these. I fell for a similar woman, and i understand how it's a lot more confusing when you're in the situation than it sounds when you spell it out like this. I know theres a weird mix of actually wanting to be a good person and selfishly keeping them around because you feel desperate. You gotta realize youre actually doing evil by enabling them. She's not worried, she knows she can couch surf and find another guy. You've got to go completely no contact. Not even with the kids. And once you're away don't feel embarrassed, you probably already know what you need to do to be happy and have failed at it before, and you've just gotta try again with a new approach, and hopefully find something that works.

34. Kick that gyal tf out, Jason. You have everything to gain from continuing to be this sweet and generous guy but you have zero obligation and lots to lose from letting anyone use that generosity against you and take advantage of it. If you don't want to hurt nobody, start by not hurting yourself ❤

35. Jason, not helping. Somebody is not the same as hurting somebody. If it were, you'd be hurting millions of starving people all around the world because you decided to give your time, money, and resources to this bitch. Just stop giving. You don't need to take away from her. You don't need to hurt her. Just stop giving

36. Suddenly I don't feel so bad about myself! Jason Jason Jason damn boy!

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