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After a series of stressful events, a caller wrestles with whether or not to stay together with his ex-wife for their kid.
Then a caller finds and searches through an old cell phone he found in a van he bought, a caller reflects on pissing in their partner’s bed, and a final caller tries to break their people pleasing habits.
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0:22 – A caller wrestles with whether or not to stay together with his ex-wife for their kid.
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32:22 – A caller searches through an old cell phone he found in a van he bought.
44:59 – A caller reflects on pissing in their partner’s bed.
53:26 – a final caller tries to break their people pleasing habits.
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wonder how he’s doing now
Feels like the first 25 mins is Lyle beating around the bush. YOU NEED TO TELL HIM TO LEAVE HER, SHE IS A HORRIFYING DANGER
And Lyle is clearly hinting at that but Lyle dude you need to take the risk no matter how horrifying it is and be clear
She is a danger. Lots of comments go into more detail about how bad of a danger she could be to Taz’s son. Leave her and get the law involved.
He will win because she’s a kidnapper.
And also make sure she doesn’t go back to that creep in Florida or any other fuck. For her own child’s sake (which she is pregnant with)
I’d watch my ex wife be homeless. Won’t budge me with offspring pity. Blood don’t mean shit. Give me custody or the offspring can be homeless too. The state can make that call.
When she leaves you again in a few years…Remember everyone told you to leave this bitch bro. You aren’t being a better man by forgiving her. You aren’t making it safer for you or your son. What she did there is zero reconciliation for. Grow the balls to move on and let the love go.
My husband has pissed between my legs lol
i love you geko
The sad part about the first caller is he will not take the advice no matter how many people tell him or what ever he loves that woman and won't leave on his own ,it's not about his son even he deep down should know his wife is no good for him it's just that he can't get over her
First call fucked me up. Going through something very similar. And have been since the start of the year.
First caller deadass needs to call Jesse Lee Peterson
First caller is funny
7:05 dude you gotta read through what she says shes fucking lying to you and that guy.. TO THE STREETS
Soul ripping situation of the first caller. Depressing and those people are lost
I need an update from the first caller.
Naw dude, first caller..say NO to that woman..there are so many negatives to saying yes to that kinda situation
Honestly girls that see greener pastures and leave the stable guy for a rich dude who promises everything are literally the new short sighted idiots we’re all having to deal with now.
This is exactly why I haven’t wanted to have kids or get married there are too many things that can go south
As someone who had parents who tried to "stick it out for the kid", and then later got divorced and separated, I can tell you without a doubt my situation was healthier after they split. I had way more trauma to work thru from while they were together, and it kind of fucked up my perspective on what love and respect looks like. I wish you all the strength you will need for this journey, regardless of what you choose
To the first caller I hope you do the right thing for your son and yourself, do what’s safest for your son and then what would ultimately make you the happiest in the long run. You are doing the best you can and I commend your strength cause fuck..
first caller is my exact age, and I just sat there and looked up at the sky, and thought to myself “ yup. Sometimes life can get this real. “
Taz she doesn't deserve to be cared for. She needs a job and she needs an exit plan.
He'll regret that decision
First caller, you also deserve to be happy. You don't have to take on other people's burdens. Do what is best for yourself, so you can focus on being a good father.
DUDE 1st caller what are you doing bro!!!
Taz ( first caller ) if you're reading this, here is what I have to say ;
Although you are right about a child being happier in a united household, it has its limits. The priority here is the *safety of the child*. Now, based on what is being described here, I have all the reasons to believe that the mother is a *MASSIVE DANGER TO THE CHILD*. What she did to you, but most importantly your child, is bordeline psychotic behavior. She put your child in so much danger on so many levels, staying with that woman means staying close to what is actively endangering your child. Let's go over what she did again ;
– She left
– Kidnapped the child (yes, legally speaking, leaving like this with the kid without your consent is, by law, kidnapping)
– Put your child in the house of an Internet stranger
– Let that stranger be** your child
– Got knocked up by that stranger
– Then came crawling back when she found out the dream life was a lie
– Still in contact with the stranger who beat your child
– Has no job
Now, if this isn't clinically insane behavior, I don't know what is. But you might be thinking « Ho she's different now, she changed. She knows now that it was wrong and she PROMISED she would never do it again.» Well, spoiler alert ; she didn't. Although we can't predict the future, we know the past. When you got married, she probably already promised 'till death do us part. Well, look how that turned out. If she already broke a promise, how much weight can a new promise have ? Furthermore, I can guarantee you that she isn't sorry about hurting you, she's sorry about hurting herself. She doesn't see how morally wrong any of this is, she only sees how she was wrong about leaving you for a worse life. She only cares about what happens to her.
Now, onto the meat of it all ; Why is she a MASSIVE danger to your child ?
Let me tell you about how most ped***** work. They go on dating website and target single desperate moms. They promise those moms a better life for them and their children, they pretend to have a nice house and a lot of money. These desperate moms buy it and bring their children into those ped******'s houses. Then, the ped****** ki** the moms and keep the children to r*** and abu** them. Rinse and repeat.
Now, let me tell you, YOU ARE LUCKY YOUR CHILD ONLY GOT BEA** !!!!* I cannot stress this enough. If your wife had the misfortune of meeting another Internet creep, instead of the one she got, you wouldn't have a child to ponder about anymore. DO. YOU. SEE. HOW. DANGEROUS. THAT. WITCH. IS !?!?!?!?!
Like previously established, who knows when she's gonna kidnap your child again, and who knows which ped***** is going to get his hands on him. Is this a situation that you want to happen again ? As long as this woman is in your child's life, this situation is ALWAYS a possibility.
Like some other comments pointed out, it seems you are grieving your relationship. Just like with death, one of the first stages of grief is denial. You are currently denying the death of your relationship. It can never be repaired. It's over.
What you need to do is kick her out of your house and fight for full costudy of your child. If you get at least a semi-decent lawyer and a little bit of support from your parents, it shouldn't be hard to get. Any judge looking at that list of insane behavior would side with you. Heck, I'm pretty sure the kidnapping alone is enough.
In conclusion, it's better for a child to have both parents in his life then divorced parents,
but it's also better to have only one parent then to be ra*** and kil**.
P.S. : whatever you decide to do, DO NOT SIGN THAT BIRTH CERTIFICATE !
I still think it should be red
Brother, my wife leaves me to go get pregnant from another dude….she dead to me lol I love her more than anything but that is the ultimate betrayal
Come to ATLANTA
I feel bad for the first caller, I had a similar relationship and it took me TOO long to understand that she was just keeping her options. Using her "im staying in touch with him" to manipulate the option that she *will go right back to them if you do not take care of me*. I't is so sad.. God bless that man and both children.
First caller , reject her take the child under your wing..the only thing that matters is the boy , he already started to get abused, her mother doesnt give a shit about you or the boy, she didnt asked you to go to Florida and get impregnated AND he get to abuse your own blood , are we serious right now ?? I am infurious with your story and i blame you ,get the situation in your hands man go to a lawyer get the kid and let her where she belongs in the fuckingg streets with a bastard child in her belly ,she chose that road let her her way then.
To the first caller i wouldn't dwell on the past and what friends you could have made. It's not healthy first off and Ive lived in the same place and been in the same school growing up and i currently have no lifelong friends except for my partner, so it probably wouldn't have mattered anyway.
Even if you leave her: who's going to take care of the child while you're at work? If you can afford childcare or could leave the kid at your mom's and you can prove all you're saying: taking the kid from you, her putting the kid at risk, you could make a agreement with her. Talk to a lawyer just to analyse your situation otherwise you're going to take of your kid, her kid and her. All on you
Holy shit that second guy said “like” so many times I almost had an aneurysm.
Btw the way, we called it "shooting the gap" when a guy peed in between a girls legs into the toilet while she peed. I dont think anybody ever did it, but we had a friend who would ask, "can I shoot the gap?" Every time a girl went to the bathroom 😂
I grew up with parents who stopped loving each other and argued constantly but they stayed together for me. That is a whole other kind of trauma. Watching your parents yell at each other every day and by the age of twelve becoming fully aware that they dont love each other anymore. Even if you have to leave your wife and find a new mom for your kid, i think he will be happier in a loving home with parents who love each other.
I felt so sorry for that first caller. He is unable to set boundaries and is being taken advantage of. The worst part is that the mother has the kid and is going to spin the craziest narrative that ain’t true.
Living with an ex is hell. Get out and get the fuck out NOW
It's not that first caller is a simp emotional attachment to the mother of your kid is different than some girl someone likes, however what she was willing to do with his son behind his back is insane and while he does love her I do hope he loves himself enough to know that she isn't responsible enough to care for your kid or you
IM TRYING TO DO COLLEGE HW AT 2 AM AND GECK IS TALKING ABOUT CROSSING STREAMS😭😭😭
the youtube algorithm showed me your channel, good stuff to listen to while tearing my hair out doing calculus 3 homework
thanks